Couple plague their neighbor with texts asking him to be silent EVERY time their baby has a nap - even when he's being quiet. So who's in the right?

每次女儿睡觉,夫妇皆短信轰炸邻居要他保持安静,即便他不出声时也不例外。谁是谁非呢?
Martha Cliff for MailOnline

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rwright61
Id go round and shove his sticks up his nostrils and slap him round the head with his cymbals !
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islandwalkerReply torwright61
Did you miss the photo that shows it's an electric drum kit and he is using earphones? That means there would be very little noise and he already said he tries to wait until they go out. She didn't even like him making dinner for goodness sakes. Would you punch the baby if it cries all night?
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Quidnunc
It was HE who encouraged the neighbours to report to him every time it got too loud. He has only himself to blame for the harassment texts, as he now sees them. Chopping food is an acceptable noise level, but drumming would not be. Find a local sound proofed rehearsal studio, and make use of it during cheap rate hours, to practice as loud as you want. They don't charge much, and it is cheaper than moving house. You could also meet other bands looking for session drummers and pick up work and music contacts for the future.
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lyfr
Just set both of their houses on fire, problem solved.
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LauraReply tolyfr
Offensive without even the evcuse of humour.
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lyfrReply tolyfr
Why were you expecting humour? I like the professionally offended brigade, they make me smile.
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ftk67
Who was there first? If they were he should respect their requests. If they came in later especially with or without the child, their problem.
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FiremistReply toftk67
If he is paying rent it doesn't matter who was there first. But then again he should not be playing drums in a thin walled apartment. Hire garage dude.
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Madrykat
I'd have kicked his @ss long before I felt the need to use text messages!
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ParisReply toMadrykat
He pays for his place just as they do. If where they live is not conducive to their family and lifestyle, they should move. Their baby is not his responsibility. And I have four children from 9 - 28 years. Surprised he hasn't had a meltdown on them by now, he must be a very laid back person.
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calilife4me
The guy admitted to regularly playing his drums in a second-floor studio apartment; yet, he's surprised the neighbors complain about the noise? They complain about the other noise he makes (tv, chopping vegs.) because, generally, he makes a ton of it.
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JCas
the amount of comments in support of the drummer? WHY?? if you ive in a block of flats; with someone beneath you; you CAN't play musical instruments - that's common sense; rent a garage; or a space if you want to make noise; not in an apartment block; she has been a SAINT..
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Poldark
If you want to practise drumming, join a freakin drumming club and do it away from everyone else. Don't do it at home. I'd complain constantly too if I could hear drumming through the walls. That said, these particular neighbours sound way over the top about noise in general. I bet they don't make any noise, do they.
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calihollyReply toPoldark
I once lived below a ballerina......and currently live in a place that allows dogs..........the struggle is real people......deal with it!!
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Thomas
Seems to me that both parties are being reasonable, and are accommodating each other's needs!
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bigjakeReply toThomas
Stuff that would never have happened with the wartime generation who were better persons than some folk we hear from today that get their views on Facebook for DM to pontificate on every day. Skools today not like the SCHOOLS of the time before this Me Me Me society!! Get A Life
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JCas
NO ONE wants a drum kit (with a partial talented drummer) at any time they are watching the TV, resting; this lad is a complete selfish man for thinking about playing drums in an apartment block; where's his parents ..
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KennyukReply toJCas
And no one wants to hear a screaming kid - the drummer has the right to peace as well you know. To me the parents of the baby are the selfish ones.
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AwakeRebal
Links to Isis?
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Thepatriot
The drummer seems quite diplomatic about being complained to and is willing to try and accommodate his neighbour , however listening to other people's noise is your own home is not on, drums are not for the house unless you live in a detached property and its not affecting the quality of life of other people. The guy with the drums obviously hasn't had a baby to contend with.
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morena2610
Sounds like Trump followers....
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kristipistolReply tomorena2610
Really, because they sound like whiney liberals to me.
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ryanryeReply tomorena2610
I also enjoy making politically charged comments on articles that have nothing to do with politics, it's so edgy!
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slebon
FAKE
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ChefShwastyReply toslebon
That's rude, man. I took the time to take pictures and stuff, and you call it fake? Very rude. Good day to you, sir.
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andrewReply toslebon
sshhhh...there's no need to shout.
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Stevearno
i thought that is why Americans had GUN's? - to solve problems like things
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cazmalc
Mum asks neighbour keep the noise down, neighbour agrees to do so. Where's the story???
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Er NurseReply tocazmalc
They wouldn't stop harassing him even when he stopped altogether. Even complained about noise when he wasn't even home. Read the texts again. They are trying to annoy him for no reason.
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SassyS150
Some of the dates are in september and october 2016.. These dates havent happened yet
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ur2insecureReply toSassyS150
The phone is set up as: Month/Day/Year
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futurama86Reply toSassyS150
It's American, months and dates are the other way around
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John PicklesReply toSassyS150
US cousins write the dates as mm/dd/yy, not dd/mm/yy. That's why they appear to be in the future.
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AmatheaReply toSassyS150
None of the dates are that far out. They are in the date system used in the US, month/day/year. They range from March 20th to August 4th.
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KitchyKimmyReply toSassyS150
Yep, that's how we write our dates over here.
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No_Respect_No_RefReply toSassyS150
They write month/day/year in America so 06/12/2016 isn't 6th December as we would read it here in the UK but June 12th.
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Woody
Could always buy an electric drum kit and earphones, noise sorted. Or buy practice pads to place on top of each drum which is a cheaper option!
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debsmailReply toWoody
He has an electric drum kit. Read the article
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WoodyReply toWoody
Debsmail, well what's wrong with headphones then?!
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txpacotaco
Some apartments have almost no sound insulation, and drumming (even electronic drums) in an apartment is just not a good idea. That having been said, seems like the best idea would be to speak to the neighbors directly and find another place to practice the drums while waiting for your lease to end / looking for a more appropriate place to live. It's possible the neighbors are hearing some other tenant's TV or stereo and incorrectly assuming it's coming from the drummer upstairs. It's also quite possible that this young man simply has no real concept of how disruptive his TV, stereo and drumming are because he's young and has not yet developed a sense of empathy for this type of situation. Regardless, I see nothing here that would be indicative of the neighbor trying to get him evicted.
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Krasen..
I only like to be awoken by the sound of the screaming woman mid orgasm.
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Ahmed BadreldinReply toKrasen..
Good on ya mate, long unaffected sleep is good for you!
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