Couple plague their neighbor with texts asking him to be silent EVERY time their baby has a nap - even when he's being quiet. So who's in the right?
每次女儿睡觉,夫妇皆短信轰炸邻居要他保持安静,即便他不出声时也不例外。谁是谁非呢?
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rwright61
Id go round and shove his sticks up his nostrils and slap him round the head with his cymbals !islandwalkerReply torwright61
Did you miss the photo that shows it's an electric drum kit and he is using earphones? That means there would be very little noise and he already said he tries to wait until they go out. She didn't even like him making dinner for goodness sakes. Would you punch the baby if it cries all night?Quidnunc
It was HE who encouraged the neighbours to report to him every time it got too loud. He has only himself to blame for the harassment texts, as he now sees them. Chopping food is an acceptable noise level, but drumming would not be. Find a local sound proofed rehearsal studio, and make use of it during cheap rate hours, to practice as loud as you want. They don't charge much, and it is cheaper than moving house. You could also meet other bands looking for session drummers and pick up work and music contacts for the future.ftk67
Who was there first? If they were he should respect their requests. If they came in later especially with or without the child, their problem.ParisReply toMadrykat
He pays for his place just as they do. If where they live is not conducive to their family and lifestyle, they should move. Their baby is not his responsibility. And I have four children from 9 - 28 years. Surprised he hasn't had a meltdown on them by now, he must be a very laid back person.Poldark
If you want to practise drumming, join a freakin drumming club and do it away from everyone else. Don't do it at home. I'd complain constantly too if I could hear drumming through the walls. That said, these particular neighbours sound way over the top about noise in general. I bet they don't make any noise, do they.Thomas
Seems to me that both parties are being reasonable, and are accommodating each other's needs!bigjakeReply toThomas
Stuff that would never have happened with the wartime generation who were better persons than some folk we hear from today that get their views on Facebook for DM to pontificate on every day. Skools today not like the SCHOOLS of the time before this Me Me Me society!! Get A LifeJCas
NO ONE wants a drum kit (with a partial talented drummer) at any time they are watching the TV, resting; this lad is a complete selfish man for thinking about playing drums in an apartment block; where's his parents ..Thepatriot
The drummer seems quite diplomatic about being complained to and is willing to try and accommodate his neighbour , however listening to other people's noise is your own home is not on, drums are not for the house unless you live in a detached property and its not affecting the quality of life of other people. The guy with the drums obviously hasn't had a baby to contend with.cazmalc
Mum asks neighbour keep the noise down, neighbour agrees to do so. Where's the story???SassyS150
Some of the dates are in september and october 2016.. These dates havent happened yetWoody
Could always buy an electric drum kit and earphones, noise sorted. Or buy practice pads to place on top of each drum which is a cheaper option!txpacotaco
Some apartments have almost no sound insulation, and drumming (even electronic drums) in an apartment is just not a good idea. That having been said, seems like the best idea would be to speak to the neighbors directly and find another place to practice the drums while waiting for your lease to end / looking for a more appropriate place to live. It's possible the neighbors are hearing some other tenant's TV or stereo and incorrectly assuming it's coming from the drummer upstairs. It's also quite possible that this young man simply has no real concept of how disruptive his TV, stereo and drumming are because he's young and has not yet developed a sense of empathy for this type of situation. Regardless, I see nothing here that would be indicative of the neighbor trying to get him evicted.